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nightcallName: Shiv
Age: late 30s.
I mostly post about: Overall, it’s about life, work, friends, and all the shenanigans that come with it. Likely some heavier discussions/reflections too about mental health and wellness as I continue to unpack the last few decades and reclaim my life from it all but not always.
My hobbies are: Many! dancing, performance art, cooking, playing indie co-op games with online friends (lot of lethal company lately), hanging out with my cats, witching around, walks and hikes & getting back into fitness, hosting, shopping & makeup when I have the dosh, watching people play blood on the clocktower. Getting back into managing a neocities website and web revival/disconnecting. 90s/00s nostalgia hitting hard. I'm looking to spend 2025 rediscovering things that I like and hobbies I might want to dive into outside of work. I'm also trying to learn Spanish and was trying to learn German but one thing at a time, right? lol.
My fandoms are: I don’t really do fandoms anymore, so you’re not likely to see much if anything about them on my blog though I may nerd out here and there, likely more about music related things. Things I like: Music is a massive part of who I am. When it comes to movies/tv shows, I’m all about action films, especially the cornier ones. I’ve got a soft spot for anything supernatural, occult, or horror-related for the most part with a bit of sci-fi sprinkled in. Really love me some circus/carnival aesthetics. I also enjoy true crime and watching Let’s Plays.
I'm looking to meet people who: I’m looking to connect with people who are using DW as a space to reflect, journal, and genuinely connect with others. Whether it’s building meaningful friendships and creating a supportive community, or just being casual friends who might stick around for a season or a lifetime, I’m open to it all. People who call me out when I need it and support when I need it and vise-versa. People who can relate to my particular wilds of the world. People who want to share, grow, and see where the journey takes us! :)
My posting schedule tends to be: Not sure yet, I've been every couple of days to every day so far but it might not always be like this. Might fluctuate depending on what kind of time and gigs I have in a month. Used to be REALLY sporadic but I'm going to try for every few days to weeks!
When I add people, my dealbreakers are: The usual stuff, and also a high preference for people more around my age. I tend to give people a chance and don't mind engaging in critical conversations when I have the energy and if they are welcomed by all involved. If I see something that is a red flag for me, I'll unfriend. I welcome you to do the same.
Before adding me, you should know: I’ve got a long history with mental illness and have spent almost a decade sheltering and isolating myself because of it. These days, I’m working with a lot of people to better understand and manage my illnesses and disabilities, and to start reclaiming my space in the world. Not every entry will be about this, life is fun and wild a lot of the time, but just an FYI.
mostly friend-locked - if you add and feel like its not for you, that is super ok.
Age: late 30s.
I mostly post about: Overall, it’s about life, work, friends, and all the shenanigans that come with it. Likely some heavier discussions/reflections too about mental health and wellness as I continue to unpack the last few decades and reclaim my life from it all but not always.
My hobbies are: Many! dancing, performance art, cooking, playing indie co-op games with online friends (lot of lethal company lately), hanging out with my cats, witching around, walks and hikes & getting back into fitness, hosting, shopping & makeup when I have the dosh, watching people play blood on the clocktower. Getting back into managing a neocities website and web revival/disconnecting. 90s/00s nostalgia hitting hard. I'm looking to spend 2025 rediscovering things that I like and hobbies I might want to dive into outside of work. I'm also trying to learn Spanish and was trying to learn German but one thing at a time, right? lol.
My fandoms are: I don’t really do fandoms anymore, so you’re not likely to see much if anything about them on my blog though I may nerd out here and there, likely more about music related things. Things I like: Music is a massive part of who I am. When it comes to movies/tv shows, I’m all about action films, especially the cornier ones. I’ve got a soft spot for anything supernatural, occult, or horror-related for the most part with a bit of sci-fi sprinkled in. Really love me some circus/carnival aesthetics. I also enjoy true crime and watching Let’s Plays.
I'm looking to meet people who: I’m looking to connect with people who are using DW as a space to reflect, journal, and genuinely connect with others. Whether it’s building meaningful friendships and creating a supportive community, or just being casual friends who might stick around for a season or a lifetime, I’m open to it all. People who call me out when I need it and support when I need it and vise-versa. People who can relate to my particular wilds of the world. People who want to share, grow, and see where the journey takes us! :)
My posting schedule tends to be: Not sure yet, I've been every couple of days to every day so far but it might not always be like this. Might fluctuate depending on what kind of time and gigs I have in a month. Used to be REALLY sporadic but I'm going to try for every few days to weeks!
When I add people, my dealbreakers are: The usual stuff, and also a high preference for people more around my age. I tend to give people a chance and don't mind engaging in critical conversations when I have the energy and if they are welcomed by all involved. If I see something that is a red flag for me, I'll unfriend. I welcome you to do the same.
Before adding me, you should know: I’ve got a long history with mental illness and have spent almost a decade sheltering and isolating myself because of it. These days, I’m working with a lot of people to better understand and manage my illnesses and disabilities, and to start reclaiming my space in the world. Not every entry will be about this, life is fun and wild a lot of the time, but just an FYI.
mostly friend-locked - if you add and feel like its not for you, that is super ok.
